Trust as a leader

Trust as a Leader

Throughout my upbringing, I often heard the adage, “Trust isn’t given; it’s earned.”

While I acknowledge the point, I also hold a different perspective on it. I concur with the notion that trust can be fragile and easily shattered. A single mistake can undermine all the trust that has been painstakingly built over time.

However, my disagreement stems from the necessity of trust for survival. Trust is an integral part of our daily lives; we rely on it when we venture into public spaces, trust our safety, or embark on routine activities like driving and relying on functional brakes. Similarly, trust plays a crucial role in professional settings, where we depend on the support of colleagues to collaborate effectively and achieve common goals.

Trust is undeniably one of life’s fundamental pillars, and it’s not solely about earning it—it’s also about extending it. Particularly for leaders, trust holds immense significance.

Reflect on past experiences under bosses lacking trust. How did it make you feel? Did it inspire motivation to go to work? Did you invest your full commitment and effort into tasks?

For me, the response is negative. When my boss lacked trust in me, I couldn’t perform at my optimal level because I felt my efforts would always fall short. Constant scrutiny of my actions hindered my ability to excel.

As a leader, if you don’t place trust in your team, you’re not maximizing their potential. While not everyone may relate to this, many will understand the impact of trust—or the lack thereof—on performance and morale.

As a parent, do you have faith in your children? When you assign them tasks, do you believe they will follow through?

Personally, I do. I have complete trust in my children’s efforts to accomplish tasks to the best of their abilities. While I acknowledge they may make mistakes and it may not be flawless, I recognize the importance of instilling trust in them. After all, what lesson am I imparting if I don’t trust them?

Do you recall how it felt as a child when your father entrusted you with a task? I vividly remember the first time my dad handed me a screwdriver and asked me to clean out the lawnmower’s carburetor. I was both terrified and exhilarated.

After completing the task, I presented it to him nervously. Despite finding a few mistakes, he never criticized or spoke down to me. Instead, he patiently explained how I could improve. He understood that it’s challenging to remember everything the first time you attempt something new.

The essence is that trust serves as the wing that enables teamwork to soar, while its absence can lead to the fragmentation of a team.

I once worked under a boss who, in a team of three, managed to divide us completely. Instead of fostering teamwork, he encouraged individual efforts, believing they would yield greater results. However, this approach fueled rivalry among us, sparking inner competition and ultimately fracturing the camaraderie we once shared. What started as a cohesive unit of three soon disintegrated, leaving us unwilling to even be in each other’s presence.

Due to his lack of trust in the team, it ultimately led to its failure.

Have you ever found yourself in a leadership role where you had to place complete trust in someone entirely new, someone you had never met before?

The next time you encounter a situation requiring trust in someone, I urge you to embrace it fully. Give them the benefit of the doubt and trust that they can handle the task just as effectively as you could, or perhaps even better. You never know until you give them the chance.

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Trusting God

Trusting God

Having trust in God isn’t always a straightforward task.

Is it true? Honestly, I fail at earning trust every day—multiple times if I’m being completely honest.

Yet, amidst my shortcomings, one thing I’ve come to understand is that regardless of our failures, God always has our best interests at heart. He desires to see us succeed!

Never lose sight of that truth.

In Luke 11:11, it is written, “Which of you fathers, if your son asks for a fish, will give him a snake instead?”

As a father myself, I can attest to the truth of this statement. So, why do I—and perhaps we—struggle to trust that God has everything under control?

The only explanation I can offer is that Satan is constantly active in everyone’s lives. He aims to instill doubt in us, questioning whether God can and will come through for us.

That’s Satan’s modus operandi. He plants seeds of doubt regarding God’s love for us. And when doubt takes root, fear begins to infiltrate our thoughts, our bodies, and eventually our souls.

How can I cultivate wholehearted trust in God?

The initial step involves aligning your mindset. Mindset serves as the cornerstone of success. If our mindset isn’t positive, it’s essential to make a change.

Numerous methods can shift our mindset. Personally, prayer proves to be the most effective for me. I continuously pray for God to shape my mindset by following His will, enabling me to fulfill His purposes.

Following that, it’s crucial to maintain an open mind and heart, allowing God to assume complete control.

During a different phase of my life, I frequently traveled for work. Every other Monday, I would board a flight, returning home on Fridays. There were months when I was only home on weekends, for which I was grateful. This routine persisted for 3.5 years.

It’s important to note that my wife had been married for over 10 years before this, and the longest we had ever been apart was for two consecutive nights. This adjustment was undeniably challenging, to say the least. I dreaded leaving the house on Monday mornings.

What fueled my perseverance was the understanding that, wherever I was headed, God had a purpose for me. He utilized me in every circumstance, orchestrating encounters with new individuals and initiating necessary conversations.

I had to shift my mindset to recognize that God had specific plans tailored for me. He provided opportunities, and it wasn’t until I opened my eyes to see that I realized His guidance and provision.

The crucial point to grasp is that, deep within your heart, God holds everything under His control.

When a client expresses a desire to back out of a contract, it’s important to recognize that God has a purpose behind it. He presents these challenges to teach us how to navigate such situations and facilitate our growth.

When we’re unable to secure that “giant” client, it’s because God has grander plans in store for us.

If we miss out on the job, we fervently desire, it’s because God has an even better opportunity awaiting us.

Every occurrence unfolds for a purpose. Once we recognize that God is not just a friend but also our constant guardian, we can relinquish our concerns about our circumstances and place our trust in God’s plan and timing.

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Wake up early

Wake up early

Waking up earlier to extend your day is a tip I’ve encountered in numerous books.

At first, I dismissed it as impractical, wondering if these authors were out of touch. However, I decided to give it a shot. Starting with setting my alarm 15 minutes earlier, I gradually shifted my wake-up time until I now wake up naturally around 4:30 a.m. every day, which has become a great habit!

What surprised me was how this simple change affected my entire day. By going to bed earlier, around 9:30–10 p.m., I ensure I get enough rest.

Waking early gives me a head start; I can complete tasks, exercise, or work on personal projects without any distractions, especially from my kids who are still asleep.

This early morning time, between 5:00 a.m. and 7:00 a.m., has become my magic time. During these hours, my creativity soars, and I achieve more than I do during any other part of the day.

My recommendation to you is to try this gradual approach. Begin by waking up 15 minutes earlier this week, and continue the trend next week. Notice how it impacts your productivity and overall well-being. Share your experience in the comments; I’m curious to hear your results.

By the way, one rule I strictly follow is never hitting the snooze button—it disrupts the rhythm I’ve established.

What time are you planning to wake up? Let me know; I’d love to hear about your journey towards a more productive morning routine!

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What I really learned getting my pilots license!

What I Really Learned About Getting My Pilot’s License

I’ve been relatively silent about my journey to becoming a pilot recently.

Partly due to the challenges I’ve been encountering, partly because of my hectic schedule, and partly because of feelings of embarrassment.

As you may already be aware, we purchased a twin-engine Cessna back in late April. However, we haven’t had many opportunities to use it thus far.

You see, I had been collaborating with a local instructor. I supported and assisted him in obtaining his multi-engine instructor qualification, using our plane for training.

Then, about 1.5 months after he received his instructor’s license, I went for a lesson on Tuesday. The next day, I received a call from him: “Hey Dan, do you have a moment to talk?”

He went on, “I have decided to step down from my role as an instructor. I will still oversee my flight school, but I won’t be conducting any more instruction.”

Despite my efforts to persuade him to continue working with me, I couldn’t change his mind. I exhausted all my attempts.

To put it mildly, I felt deflated.

On that very day, I began reaching out to contacts nationwide, searching for someone willing to assist me in obtaining multi-engine certification directly.

However, the response I received repeatedly was: “We’d be glad to assist you once you obtain your single-engine certification.”

Although I trusted that God had a plan, at that moment, I couldn’t discern what it was.

After spending another week searching nationwide, I shifted gears once more and connected with another local instructor who could assist me in obtaining my single-engine certification.

Following our initial lesson and experiencing the close quarters of the single-engine aircraft (which I humorously refer to as a “pop can” due to its compact size), I was determined to complete my multi-engine certification.

I promptly scheduled a check ride (test) for September, as there was only one local tester available in the area. Feeling adequately prepared for the examination, I eagerly awaited the day.

Upon arrival, I managed to pass the test, but just barely. To put it mildly, it was not a graceful performance.

Continuing to refine my skills in single-engine flying, the very next day, after passing my single-engine check ride, I began searching for a fast-track program to obtain my multi-engine certification.

I came across numerous options, but they were all fully booked until the middle of January.

Then, by what seemed like either sheer luck or divine intervention, I stumbled upon a school in Florida offering a fast-track program with an available slot in mid-October.

When I inquired whether it was feasible to obtain the “add-on” multi-engine certification within a week, they assured me it was possible, albeit with an intense schedule ahead.

I consider myself quite driven and resilient, so I wasted no time in signing an agreement with them, purchasing tickets, arranging for transportation, and securing accommodation in the area.

With everything set up, there wasn’t much else to do until my arrival.

Upon reaching the destination on the first morning, I obtained my high-performance rating before noon. The very same afternoon, we dove straight into multi-training.

For the following four days, I dedicated over 8 hours each day to training in a multi-engine aircraft. We conducted 7-8 stalls daily, frequently simulating engine failures. Additionally, I executed over 50 landings and immersed myself in extensive ground school sessions to ensure readiness for the exam.

It’s worth noting that during this period, my team back home exhibited outstanding performance in managing the business. After wrapping up the day’s training, I would head straight home, prepare dinner, and then delve into work tasks until well past 10 p.m., catching up on everything I missed.

Furthermore, I would rise at 4-5 am to study for the upcoming day’s lessons and finalize pending work matters.

Jenna took charge of our bustling household throughout the entire week. She’s an incredible person and an outstanding wife. I feel incredibly fortunate to have her as my partner in every aspect of my life. Her unwavering support, along with the support from our kids, has been truly remarkable.

To put it mildly, it was an exhausting week.

Once, while flying out to inspect the ocean, the instructor deliberately shut off the fuel to one engine. I immediately detected the alteration and began troubleshooting. Upon realizing the fuel was off, I promptly inquired whether she preferred me to restart the engine or shut it down completely.

Her response was affirmative: “You handled it excellently; you can restart it.”

Just two days before the check ride, my initial examiner contacted the school, stating he was unwell and unable to conduct any examinations.

In response, they reached out to their network and managed to secure a replacement examiner in another city. This individual turned out to be an exceptional corporate pilot responsible for flying the New York Yankees. He served as their primary pilot.

While performing the maneuvers during the check ride, I was nearing completion. We were preparing to land and conclude the test when a minor issue arose with our landing gear.

Ideally, we should have observed three green lights, but we only saw two. I followed protocol precisely and thoroughly checked everything. Subsequently, we made the decision to conduct a flyby of the tower, allowing them to inspect the gear and confirm if all three wheels were down.

As we passed by, they confirmed that it appeared all three wheels were down. Therefore, we opted to proceed with the landing.

The descent was remarkably smooth, resulting in what was likely the smoothest landing I’ve ever experienced. We gracefully touched down on the runway, gently lowering our noses.

Thankfully, the landing gear held up. As we taxied towards the parking spot, we took the corners cautiously, as the examiner cautioned that if the gear were to fail, it would likely happen during the turns.

After parking, we conducted a thorough inspection of the gear and concluded it was secure and safe for flight. However, during the flight back home, we intentionally kept the gear down.

I am immensely grateful for the unwavering support system at home and for everything Jenna has done to make this journey possible. She is the ideal partner for me, and I feel incredibly blessed by God to have her in my life.

Ultimately, I’ve come to understand some of the reasons why God intervened in my initial plans.

  1. Perseverance leads to achievement; where there’s a will, there’s a way.
  2.  You can inspire others to improve, but you can’t force them to make the right choices. While you can lend a hand, individuals must have the desire to progress to the next level.
  3.  Sometimes, slowing down is the wisest course of action. Rushing often leads to oversight and vulnerability.
  4. Most importantly, my appreciation for the multi-engine plane has significantly increased compared to if I had obtained my certification immediately. I now understand its capabilities and the importance of vigilance. Speed amplifies the pace of events, necessitating heightened awareness.
  5. Place your trust in God’s plan; every action has a purpose. Trust Him with everything, and He will provide.
  6. A strong support system is indispensable for success. Jenna and the kids’ encouragement was invaluable, and I couldn’t have achieved it without them. Never underestimate the importance of your support network.

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What Nobody Tells You About Being An Entrepreneur

What Nobody Tells You About Being an Entrepreneur

What Nobody Tells You About Being an Entrepreneur

One aspect of entrepreneurship that nobody ever fully conveyed to me before embarking on this journey is the sheer magnitude of the work involved.

Let me share with you my routine: I rise promptly between 4 and 4:30 every morning and dive straight into my tasks. As the rest of the household awakens, I pause to connect with them briefly. Then it’s back to work until late in the afternoon. Another pause follows this one for quality time with my family, which I cherish as the most crucial aspect of life. After that, I tackled a bit more work before retiring for the night.

What’s striking is how much quicker my mind operates now compared to before. Back when I worked for others, my mornings revolved around mundane thoughts like breakfast plans and packing lunch. Throughout the day, my mind wandered to personal matters and dreams for the future. Evenings were filled with passive activities like watching TV and pondering my children’s futures.

But now, my thoughts are consumed by business strategies, maintaining spiritual connection, and ensuring the well-being of both my own family and those in our employ. I’m constantly assessing daily tasks and long-term goals, accompanied by a hint of anxiety about possibly forgetting something crucial or disappointing clients. And all this mental activity begins before I even reach for my morning coffee.

Recently, during a meeting with new clients, my colleague Sam, who has worked alongside me for over a year, expressed his wonder at my approach. After the meeting, we had a brief chat, and as I was leaving, he asked me, “How do you manage it all?”

“What do you mean?” I asked.
“How do you manage to keep your mind from exploding? I could practically see the gears turning in your head the entire duration of the meeting. And as soon as it concluded, you whipped out your phone and started jotting down notes like a man possessed for a good 3 to 5 minutes. Your brain must be operating at a million miles an hour compared to mine!”
Firstly, my brain isn’t exactly quick. If anything, it moves slower than molasses in the dead of winter in Alaska! That’s slow, for sure. laughs
He effortlessly retained the ideas we generated during that single meeting and immediately strategized on how we could alter our approach to better cater to our clients. He was also amazed by the swift action we took the very next day to implement these changes.

Being an entrepreneur or business owner isn’t solely about raking in loads of cash. It’s unequivocally about improving how we serve our community tomorrow compared to today. Unfortunately, many fail to grasp this concept. All they aspire to do is build a business, sell it for a fortune, and live a life of luxury. But that, in my eyes, doesn’t define a true entrepreneur. To me, an entrepreneur is someone who shoulders personal responsibility for a problem and goes above and beyond to devise a simpler solution for others to utilize.

Nobody warned me about the immense satisfaction I would derive from giving back to our clients. Lately, we’ve been gifting custom hand-drawn pictures printed on canvas to our clients, and the joy it brings me is indescribable.

Another unforeseen source of joy has been nurturing the growth of others and providing them with incredible learning opportunities. Leadership is undeniably challenging, and ensuring there’s enough capital in reserves for payroll can be stressful at times. However, the fulfillment I personally experience from working alongside an exceptional team outweighs every ounce of stress.

Right now, someone might be thinking, “You just enjoy bossing others around!” But the truth is, I despise dictating what others should do. What I truly relish is inviting them to contribute to a new project and witnessing their problem-solving skills in action. Initially, we’re all filled with trepidation when faced with something unfamiliar. However, the sheer delight I experience in observing someone overcome a daunting challenge is unparalleled. Their newfound confidence is truly remarkable.

Here’s the overarching lesson from this narrative: When you feel compelled to act, seize the moment! Don’t hesitate. The rewards far outweigh any discomfort. And remember, “pain” is merely an acronym:
P: Pleasure
A: After
I: Initial
N: Nightmare

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One aspect of entrepreneurship that nobody ever fully conveyed to me before embarking on this journey is the sheer magnitude of work involved.

Let me share with you my routine: I rise promptly between 4 and 4:30 every morning and dive straight into my tasks. As the rest of the household awakens, I pause to connect with them briefly. Then it’s back to work until late in the afternoon. Another pause follows this one for quality time with my family, which I cherish as the most crucial aspect of life. After that, I tackled a bit more work before retiring for the night.

What’s striking is how much quicker my mind operates now compared to before. Back when I worked for others, my mornings revolved around mundane thoughts like breakfast plans and packing lunch. Throughout the day, my mind wandered to personal matters and dreams for the future. Evenings were filled with passive activities like watching TV and pondering my children’s futures.

But now, my thoughts are consumed by business strategies, maintaining spiritual connection, and ensuring the well-being of both my own family and those in our employ. I’m constantly assessing daily tasks and long-term goals, accompanied by a hint of anxiety about possibly forgetting something crucial or disappointing clients. And all this mental activity begins before I even reach for my morning coffee.

Recently, during a meeting with new clients, my colleague Sam, who has worked alongside me for over a year, expressed his wonder at my approach. After the meeting, we had a brief chat, and as I was leaving, he asked me, “How do you manage it all?”

“What do you mean?” I asked.
“How do you manage to keep your mind from exploding? I could practically see the gears turning in your head the entire duration of the meeting. And as soon as it concluded, you whipped out your phone and started jotting down notes like a man possessed for a good 3 to 5 minutes. Your brain must be operating at a million miles an hour compared to mine!”
Firstly, my brain isn’t exactly quick. If anything, it moves slower than molasses in the dead of winter in Alaska! That’s slow, for sure. laughs
He effortlessly retained the ideas we generated during that single meeting and immediately strategized on how we could alter our approach to better cater to our clients. He was also amazed by the swift action we took the very next day to implement these changes.

Being an entrepreneur or business owner isn’t solely about raking in loads of cash. It’s unequivocally about improving how we serve our community tomorrow compared to today. Unfortunately, many fail to grasp this concept. All they aspire to do is build a business, sell it for a fortune, and live a life of luxury. But that, in my eyes, doesn’t define a true entrepreneur. To me, an entrepreneur is someone who shoulders personal responsibility for a problem and goes above and beyond to devise a simpler solution for others to utilize.

Nobody warned me about the immense satisfaction I would derive from giving back to our clients. Lately, we’ve been gifting custom hand-drawn pictures printed on canvas to our clients, and the joy it brings me is indescribable.

Another unforeseen source of joy has been nurturing the growth of others and providing them with incredible learning opportunities. Leadership is undeniably challenging, and ensuring there’s enough capital in reserves for payroll can be stressful at times. However, the fulfillment I personally experience from working alongside an exceptional team outweighs every ounce of stress.

Right now, someone might be thinking, “You just enjoy bossing others around!” But the truth is, I despise dictating what others should do. What I truly relish is inviting them to contribute to a new project and witnessing their problem-solving skills in action. Initially, we’re all filled with trepidation when faced with something unfamiliar. However, the sheer delight I experience in observing someone overcome a daunting challenge is unparalleled. Their newfound confidence is truly remarkable.

Here’s the overarching lesson from this narrative: When you feel compelled to take action, seize the moment! Don’t hesitate. The rewards far outweigh any discomfort. And remember, “pain” is merely an acronym:
P: Pleasure
A: After
I: Initial
N: Nightmare

Enhance your faith-led leadership journey with God First Life Next. Explore empowering insights at “Encouragement in Daily Life: Small Acts, Big Effects” Let faith guide your leadership. Click for purposeful living at GodFirstLifeNext.org.

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